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2026 Holiday Gift Guide for gay men, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 002, gifts sorted by Top, Bottom n' budget

2026 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE (for gay men)

Gifts for gay men, sorted by Top, Bottom n' budget. The best sex toys and kink gear of 2026, plus Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2026 dates.

2026 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE (for gay men)

Gifts for gay men, sorted by Top, Bottom n' budget. The best sex toys and kink gear of 2026, plus Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2026 dates.

How to stretch your hole proper, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 001, five stages from finger to fist

How to Stretch Your Hole PROPER

Anal training done right, from your first plug to deep stretching and fisting. Step-by-step stages, lube rules, recovery, and the gear that gets you there.

How to Stretch Your Hole PROPER

Anal training done right, from your first plug to deep stretching and fisting. Step-by-step stages, lube rules, recovery, and the gear that gets you there.

Cock ring guide, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 003, fit, timing and safety

Cock Ring Guide: Fit, Timing and Safety

Snug, not strangling. You should be able to slide a finger under it. Take any ring off after about 30 minutes, and immediately if anything goes numb, cold or discolored.

Cock Ring Guide: Fit, Timing and Safety

Snug, not strangling. You should be able to slide a finger under it. Take any ring off after about 30 minutes, and immediately if anything goes numb, cold or discolored.

Sex toy materials and lube compatibility, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 004

Sex Toy Materials and Lube Compatibility

Water-based is safe on everything. Silicone lube and hybrids degrade silicone, TPE and TPR, which is what turns a soft realistic surface sticky and cracked.

Sex Toy Materials and Lube Compatibility

Water-based is safe on everything. Silicone lube and hybrids degrade silicone, TPE and TPR, which is what turns a soft realistic surface sticky and cracked.

Your first bondage kit, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 005, five pieces in buying order

Bondage for Beginners: Building Your First Kit

Buy in this order: wrist cuffs, blindfold, ankle cuffs, an anchor, then a hood or gag. Add safety shears at the same time as the first purchase.

Bondage for Beginners: Building Your First Kit

Buy in this order: wrist cuffs, blindfold, ankle cuffs, an anchor, then a hood or gag. Add safety shears at the same time as the first purchase.

How to douche before anal sex, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 006

How to Douche Before Anal Sex

Lukewarm plain water, low pressure, shallow rather than deep, and 30 to 60 minutes before play. Gentle beats aggressive every time.

How to Douche Before Anal Sex

Lukewarm plain water, low pressure, shallow rather than deep, and 30 to 60 minutes before play. Gentle beats aggressive every time.