2026 Holiday Gift Guide for gay men, Fort Troff Field Manual No. 002, gifts sorted by Top, Bottom n' budget

2026 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE (for gay men)

Quick answer, because his gift is already late: the best sex toy gifts for gay men in 2026 are the ones he'll use EVERY week. Bottom? Get him the Cut Thruster Hands-Free Thrusting Dildo. Top? The Banshee Pump 3.0, our #1 pump at the Fort, rated 4.8 stars across 121 reviews. Two guys who fuck each other on the regular get Porta Plow Portable Sling Straps. No clue what size he takes? Send the Fort Troff E-Gift Card, $25 to $150, and let him pick.

This is the Fort Troff 2026 Holiday Gift Guide for gay men, sorted by Top, Bottom n' budget. Put the rainbow mug DOWN. Nobody on your list wants another f**king candle. Every piece below is real gear, hand-picked by the Fort Troff crew and in stock right now.

Shopping for yourself? Same list, Sir. Nobody's checking whose name is on the order.

In this guide

Quick picks: the right gift for every kind of guy

If he's... Get him Why this one lands
A bottom who wants it hands-free Cut Thruster An industry-leading stroke that fits in his nightstand. 4.4 stars, 79 reviews.
A Top who loves his cock Banshee Pump 3.0 Our #1 pump. Hands-free, with a LIVE pressure readout. 4.8 stars, 121 reviews.
Into prostate play Powershift 300 8 vibration combos aimed DEAD at the P-spot. 4.8 stars, 48 reviews.
Half of a couple Porta Plow Sling Straps Legs UP, sling-style, on any bed. Fits in a carry-on. 4.8 stars, 161 reviews.
The guy who has everything Gunner System A 3-in-1 fucking machine that runs up to 190 strokes a minute.
Into bondage Bed Bondage System 14 anchor points hidden under the mattress. 4.8 stars, 40 reviews.
A gift under $25 X-Wrap Cock ring n' ball stretcher in one loop. 5.0 stars, 45 reviews.
Impossible to shop for Fort Troff E-Gift Card $25 to $150, straight to his inbox.

Black Friday 2026 and Cyber Monday 2026 dates

Sale day 2026 date
Thanksgiving Thursday, November 26, 2026
Black Friday Friday, November 27, 2026
Cyber Monday Monday, November 30, 2026

Black Friday 2026 is Friday, November 27, the day after Thanksgiving. Cyber Monday 2026 is Monday, November 30. Write those down. Then quit waiting around and pick his gift from the list below.

Eligible U.S. orders over $119 ship free. Shipping outside the U.S.? Our international rates are fast and affordable.

Best gifts for bottoms: thrusters, prostate toys and plugs

Bottoms aren't complicated. He wants to be FILLED. Bonus points if the toy does the work while his hands are busy somewhere else.

Throw a bottle of Passion Natural Water-Based Lube in the box with any of these. Gift a butt toy without lube and you're dead to us.

Cut Thruster Hands-Free Thrusting Dildo

Best for: the bottom who wants a Top that NEVER gets tired. Rated 4.4 stars from 79 reviews.

Cut Thruster hands-free thrusting dildo showing its long thrust stroke, Fort Troff

The Cut Thruster is designed to hit like a hard-poundin' Top, with an industry-leading back-and-forth stroke packed into a compact frame. A thick, cushioned head pops in EZ. Most mechanical dongs run a hard head. Not this one.

Premium liquid silicone makes the Cut Thruster waterproof, which means shower sessions are ON. Likes his men uncut? The Uncut Thruster runs the same engine under a foreskin.

I want the Cut Thruster →

Powershift 300 Vibrating Prostate Massager

Best for: a P-spot orgasm that rattles the headboard. Rated 4.8 stars from 48 reviews.

Powershift 300 vibrating prostate massager with T-bone base, Fort Troff

Small toy. SERIOUS punch. The Powershift 300 is built to hit the male G-spot HARDER than anything its size, with 3 speeds and 5 patterns for 8 variations.

The flex neck and EZ-grip T-bone base keep the Powershift 300 comfortable through a long session. Premium soft-touch silicone, USB rechargeable, zero batteries rolling under the bed.

Gimme the Powershift 300 →

P-Spot Milker Remote Control Prostate Massager

Best for: the guy who wants somebody ELSE on the remote. Rated 4.7 stars from 30 reviews.

P-Spot Milker remote control prostate massager with its wireless remote, Fort Troff

The P-Spot Milker is designed with a milking bead under the swollen head that works his prostate like a thick finger that NEVER gets tired. One motor throbs deep in the head while a second throbs under the textured pad on his taint.

7 vibration settings run from a steady throb to a thumpin' pulse, all on a wireless remote. Hand that remote to his boyfriend and watch him lose his DAMN mind.

Put the P-Spot Milker in my cart →

Robo Rimmer Rolling Vibrating Plug

Best for: rim worship without a tongue cramp. Rated 4.6 stars from 79 reviews.

Robo Rimmer rolling vibrating rimming plug in black silicone, Fort Troff

Robo Rimmer is a mechanical tongue that never asks for a break. Hefty bead rollers gyrate around his hole, high points first and low ripples after. The fat mushroom head vibrates in 8 quivering modes on 1 engine, and a second MONSTER engine runs the beads through 5 patterns.

Robo Rimmer is a BIG plug, made for a hole that loves size. Want those rolling beads in a slimmer build? Grab the Robo Rimmer Slim. Both are remote controlled and made of premium body-safe silicone.

I want the Robo Rimmer →

Spring Loaded Lock'D Locking Metal Butt Plug

Best for: the guy who wants to stay plugged ALL night. Rated 4.7 stars from 43 reviews.

Spring Loaded Lock'D locking metal butt plug with flex spring stem and cock ring, Fort Troff

The Spring Loaded Lock'D is the ONLY metal plug with a built-in flex spring stem, locked to a cock ring that keeps the plug exactly where he wants the steel. Hefty steel gives his hole that FULL feeling, and the silicone-coated spring moves with him.

Warm the steel with warm water for a slick start, or chill the plug in the freezer for INTENSE temp play. Heads up: the ring is SNUG and isn't made for a big dick. Packing serious meat? The Spring Loaded Metal Butt Plug gives you the same steel in Small, Medium and Large, rated 4.8 stars from 156 reviews.

Lock me into the Lock'D →

Kum Keeper Hollow Tunnel Butt Plug

Best for: the breeding pig. Rated 4.5 stars from 22 reviews.

The Kum Keeper is the FIRST hollow butt plug you can CORK. The tapered tip nestles in and leaves his hole OPEN for deposits.

Once he's full, the Lock-It Cork clicks in for a secure no-drip closure. 3 sizes of premium silicone. Pick his level of PIG.

Gimme the Kum Keeper →

Tendril Thruster Mini Fuck Machine

Best for: a fuck machine that fits in a drawer. Rated 4.5 stars from 28 reviews.

Tendril Thruster blue mini fuck machine thrusting dildo, Fort Troff

Tendril Thruster is a dong AND a fuck machine, marbled deep-sea blue over black silicone. The turbo torque engine drives the longest stroke of any dong its size, and the tendrils bump along his walls on every single pass.

He gets 2 speeds of fuckin' with 8 vibration settings layered on top, run from the wireless remote or the buttons on the balls. Rather have him in red? Grab the Tendril Thruster Red.

I want the Tendril Thruster →

Best gifts for Tops: pumps, sleeves, rings and strokers

Tops are EASY. Anything that makes his cock look BIGGER goes straight to the top of his list. Don't overthink this one.

Shopping rings? Read our cock ring guide first. Fit matters, and guessing wrong is on you.

Banshee Pump 3.0 Digital Penis Pump

Best for: the guy who checks his size in EVERY mirror. Rated 4.8 stars from 121 reviews.

Model holding the Banshee Pump 3.0 digital penis pump with the LCD lit, Fort Troff

The Banshee Pump 3.0 is our #1 cock pump at the Fort, rebuilt for hands-free pumping with one-touch control. The LCD shows real-time pressure and session time while he cycles through 4 levels of whisper-quiet suction.

An extra-wide, flared Cush Grenade base made from premium silicone seals airtight in seconds. The Banshee works great with smaller cocks too. Trans men have tested and approved the 3.0. USB rechargeable.

I want the Banshee Pump 3.0 →

Raw Pup Penis Sleeve Girth Enhancer

Best for: Tops AND bottoms, same gift. Rated 4.3 stars from 172 reviews.

Raw Pup clear penis sleeve girth enhancer, Fort Troff

Over 4 years in the making, the Raw Pup is still a MEGA-hit at the Fort. Our premium RAW formula fattens ANY cock with an extra-soft, thick layer of cushion, and he goes HARDER n' LONGER while the sleeve stretches whoever's taking him.

Flip the Raw Pup around for a bottom. The bullet-shaped head glides in EASY, and a small bulbed knot at the base pops in to stay put. RAW flexes and warms to skin.

Gimme the Raw Pup →

Rev Cock Throbber Flexible Vibrating Ring

Best for: a rumble he feels in his balls. Rated 4.5 stars from 138 reviews.

Rev Cock Throbber flexible vibrating cock ring worn around cock and balls, Fort Troff

Rev Cock Throbber is the ONLY rumblin' cock ring that FLEXES to fit. The ERGO fit is shaped to hug his package.

Dual engines deliver 360 degrees of vibration across 10 high-powered settings that leave him HARD n' DRIPPIN'.

Put the Rev Cock Throbber in my cart →

Autoblow AI Ultra Blowjob Machine

Best for: the guy who'd rather lie back and get serviced.

Autoblow AI Ultra blowjob machine on a steel crate, Fort Troff

He lies back. The Autoblow AI Ultra does the rest, stroking his WHOLE shaft root to tip with the stroke length, speed n' zone all his to set. Flip to mode 10 and the AI blends 16 blowjob techniques on the fly. No 2 sessions run the same.

Video sync matches each stroke to the porn on screen, and the machine comes with free access to a synced library of 600+ videos.

I want the AI Ultra →

2 Way Grunt Double-Ended Stroker Dildo

Best for: the vers guy. Rated 4.7 stars from 69 reviews.

2 Way Grunt double-ended stroker and dildo, Fort Troff

Can't tell if he's a Top or a bottom? Get him both ends. The 2 Way Grunt is a realistic cock on one end and a tight, puckered hole on the other. He fucks the hole end or gets fucked by the cock end, his call.

Premium TPR feels warm and soft over a firm core. The textured interior grips every inch while he builds stamina.

Gimme the 2 Way Grunt →

Doggie Style David Petite Masturbator

Best for: the guy who likes the view from behind.

Doggie Style David is a compact hunk of man flesh with a soft, realistic ass and squeezable cheeks in extra-soft SexFlesh.

David stands on his own on any flat surface. Want more control? He's compact enough to grab and work by hand.

I want Doggie Style David →

X-Wrap Cock Ring and Ball Stretcher

Best for: the best gift under $25 on the site, period. Rated 5.0 stars from 45 reviews.

X-Wrap wrapped around cock and balls as a cock ring and ball stretcher, Fort Troff

The X-Wrap is a 3-in-1 ring in one stretchy loop. Wear the X-Wrap as a cushy cock ring, drop the X-Wrap to his balls and watch them swing LOW, or run both at once.

A TPR and liquid silicone blend warms to his junk instantly. Want more wraps? The Hog X Wrap loops up to 5 times for a stacked, bulging package.

Add the X-Wrap to my cart →

Best sex toys for gay couples

Shopping for 2 guys? Get gear that puts BOTH of them to work. Everything here is built for a Top and a bottom in the same room, or a Dom with the remote in his hand while his sub squirms.

Porta Plow Portable Sling Straps

Best for: sling sex without a sling frame. Rated 4.8 stars from 161 reviews.

Porta Plow portable sling straps holding a bottom's legs up on a mattress, Fort Troff

No sling? No excuse. Porta Plow holds the bottom's legs UP, sling-style, on any bed in any hotel room. Padded ballistic nylon straps and stirrups cushion his legs without digging in.

A plump detachable pillow supports his neck and back while he gets used. The full kit packs into a carry-on.

I want the Porta Plow →

Bed Bondage Under-Bed Restraint System

Best for: turning the bed he already owns into a rig. Rated 4.8 stars from 40 reviews.

Model strapped wrists and ankles to the Bed Bondage under-bed restraint system, Fort Troff

The Bed Bondage system gives you 14 heavy-duty anchor points and over 20 positions to fold your sub into, held down with extra-thick tactical military nylon straps.

The setup lays out under the mattress in minutes and stays hidden when his mom comes over.

Strap me into Bed Bondage →

Doorway Glory Hole Kit

Best for: anonymous-feeling play at home.

Doorway Glory Hole Kit locked into a doorway at hip height, Fort Troff

Any doorway becomes a glory hole. Tension bars lock the kit into any door frame with up to 20 inches of variance, and a ballistic nylon curtain settles into the frame for a FULLY anonymous experience.

The holed panel adjusts for short and tall kings. Smooth molded PVC lines the opening for the comfort of Top n' bottom. A best seller in our Hits collection.

I want the Glory Hole Kit →

Robo Plunger Rotating Bead Depth Dong

Best for: the Dom who likes being in CONTROL. Rated 5.0 stars from 10 reviews.

Robo Plunger is built for hefty depth play and rim worship. Steel-reinforced beads rotate deep inside to churn his hole, with 7 powerful vibration modes on top.

Robo Plunger is remote controlled, water-resistant and USB rechargeable. The plunger also runs off the Gunner System remote and fits every FT wall mount.

Gimme the Robo Plunger →

Velvet Guard Waterproof Play Sheet

Best for: couples who play WET. Rated 4.8 stars.

Two men in jockstraps on the Velvet Guard waterproof play sheet, Fort Troff

Velvet Guard turns the bed into a worry-free wet-and-wild play zone. The top layer is velvet-soft microfiber that feels like real bedding against bare skin.

Lube, cum, piss n' sweat soak into the inner moisture barrier before any of the mess hits the mattress. Machine washable, in Queen or King.

I want the Velvet Guard →

Tactical Velcro Collar and Chain Leash

Best for: pup play and parading.

High-grip Velcro closes the Tactical Collar in seconds with ZERO buckle fumbling, and the neoprene lining molds to his neck.

The hefty metal D-ring and chain leash handle every yank, tug n' parade.

Leash me up →

For the gay man who has everything: big-ticket playroom gifts

He already owns the plugs. He owns the rings. Quit buying him small sh*t and build out his playroom.

Picking a sling? Our guide to choosing a sex sling sorts it out in 3 questions.

Gunner System 3-in-1 Fucking Machine

Best for: the FULL fuck machine. Rated 4.7 stars from 7 reviews.

Gunner System fucking machine base-mounted on a bed behind a model, Fort Troff

2 years in the making, the Gunner System is the Total Package in fuck machine tech. Mount the turbo torque gun on the ballast base, pull the gun off to go handheld, or run the tools on their own handle.

Fill the removable tanks with water or sand for a planted ride on the bed, the floor or the back of his truck. The Gunner hits up to 190 strokes per minute from ANY angle on the 180-degree arm.

I want the Gunner System →

Grunt Fuck Machine with Body-Weight Anchor Mat

Best for: the guy who rides on his knees. Rated 4.5 stars from 81 reviews.

Grunt Fuck Machine with body-weight anchor mat, Fort Troff

Most fuck machines rely on suction feet. The Grunt Fuck Machine is designed with a ballistic cush mat that uses his own body weight to anchor down.

On his knees, in a squat or on his back, the frame stays planted and he stays STUFFED.

Gimme the Grunt Fuck Machine →

Hammock Hangar Mesh Sex Sling

Best for: a permanent sling setup. Rated 4.8 stars from 16 reviews.

Model reclined in the Hammock Hangar mesh sex sling on its tri-sling frame, Fort Troff

Hammock Hangar is our FIRST tri-sling frame. The triangle is the strongest shape in nature and resists rocking, which means a rock-steady ride.

FT Unibar vertical supports carry the mesh sling. Add the Sling Mirror and he gets to watch.

I want the Hammock Hangar →

Obedience Extreme Sex Bench

Best for: the dungeon centerpiece.

Model strapped face down on the Obedience Extreme Sex Bench, Fort Troff

A heavy-duty steel frame supports up to 330 lbs. Adjustable arm and leg supports fit every body type.

Removable nylon restraint straps hold a consenting sub in place, and an optional U-shaped headrest swaps in for a different position.

Put the Obedience Bench in my cart →

Autoblow VacuGlide 2 Milking Machine

Best for: the guy who wants to be milked DRY.

Autoblow VacuGlide 2 milking machine with its stroker sleeves, Fort Troff

The VacuGlide 2 locks his cock in real vacuum suction while a vacuum-driven piston strokes his full length. 20 speed levels climb from a slow, teasing milk to 225 strokes a minute.

Hard or soft, he slides right in. The VacuGlide 2 works with or without an erection.

I want the VacuGlide 2 →

Dennis' Realistic 3D Ass and Poseable Dildo

Best for: the guy who wants a WHOLE man in the box.

Hand bending the poseable cock on Dennis' realistic ass and dildo, Fort Troff

Dennis is a hefty 13-pound cock and ass combo in dual-density SexFlesh, built for guys who like their toys big n' realistic.

Stand Dennis at the edge of the bed, lay him face down or flip him on his back. The poseable cock bends to the angle you want.

Gimme Dennis →

Kink and bondage gifts: hoods, harnesses, cuffs and gags

Kink gear is the gift for the guy who already knows EXACTLY what he wants done to him. Don't guess at his limits. Our first bondage kit guide lays out the order to buy in.

Black Ops Perforated Bondage Hood

Best for: sub-space without a full blackout.

Black Ops perforated neoprene bondage hood, Fort Troff

Breathable, perforated neoprene filters light, sound and airflow. His sub stays cool, alert and locked onto his voice.

The XL mouth hole keeps him ready for use ALL night.

I want the Black Ops Hood →

Silicone Sensory Hood

Best for: the guy who wants to be an OBJECT.

Silicone Sensory Hood with DRONE printed in red, Fort Troff

SLUT, DRONE or SLAVE is printed in red across the face, which means nobody has to ask what he came for.

The built-in gag props his jaw wide with a tunnel running straight through, and his mouth becomes a hole.

Gimme the Sensory Hood →

Tactical Velcro Wrist Restraints

Best for: restraint without buckle bullsh*t.

Model's wrists bound in Tactical Velcro wrist restraints, Fort Troff

Heavy-duty Velcro grips HARD and releases fast. Plush neoprene hugs his wrists without pinching skin.

Each set includes a carabiner and hefty D-rings. Add the Tactical Velcro Ankle Cuffs and the Tactical Hogtie Restraint Hub to finish the job.

Cuff me →

Blackout Bulldog Chest Harness

Best for: a night out at the leather bar.

Bearded model wearing the Blackout Bulldog chest harness, Fort Troff

Smooth vinyl and jet black hardware give the Blackout Bulldog an Alpha edge. Soft neoprene lines every strap.

4 adjustment buckles lock in his fit, in 3 sizes.

I want the Bulldog Harness →

Max Comfort Silicone Ball Gag

Best for: muzzling a brat. Rated 5.0 stars from 5 reviews.

Model wearing the Max Comfort silicone ball gag, Fort Troff

The soft silicone ball has bite-down fins that hug his teeth and keep his jaw in a natural position for LONG scenes.

The EZ-adjust Flex Strap cinches with the push of a button.

Gimme the Max Comfort Gag →

CUMfort Cage Flexible Silicone Chastity Cage

Best for: the guy who wants his cock on LOCKDOWN. Rated 4.9 stars from 10 reviews.

2 years in the making, the CUMfort Cage is our alternative to hard steel chastity. Premium soft silicone moves with him while keeping a full boner off the table.

CUMfort is made for guys packing meat, with a stretch opening anchoring his balls for TOTAL package lockdown.

I want the CUMfort Cage →

Gifts for the fist pig

For the guy who loves a hand. Our anal training guide covers every stage from finger to fist, and he should read every word of the guide.

FF Trainer Fisting Practice Kit

Best for: training his hole for a REAL hand. Rated 4.7 stars.

FF Trainer fisting practice kit with 2 training hands and suction base, Fort Troff

The FF Trainer Kit includes a smaller hand and a larger hand in flexy PVC, sculpted smooth with no knuckles or nails to worry about.

The Vac-U-Lock suction base locks either hand to any smooth surface. Thick lube and toy cleaner come packed in the kit.

I want the FF Trainer →

FFister Cushioned Fisting Sleeve

Best for: his Top's forearm. Rated 4.7 stars from 38 reviews.

Model's forearm in the FFister black cushioned fisting sleeve, Fort Troff

The FFister is a thick n' cushy sheath designed for DEEP dives. The sleeve is fingerless, which keeps nails from scratching, and the heavily cushioned knuckles give a smoother passage through the ring.

The FFister stretches well past the mid forearm. Prefer a full glove? The FFister XL Fisting Glove comes in Peek-A-Boo Clear and Inky Black.

Gimme the FFister →

Rosebud Pump Anal Pumping Cylinder

Best for: a long, slow pump session. Rated 4.7 stars from 23 reviews.

Rosebud gets a TIGHT seal right away, with a phat ergonomic cushion and a flexible spiral stem. Pump n' bloom.

The Rosebud is the cylinder only. Add the Digital Pump with Connector for push-button control or the Deluxe Steel Hand Pump for squeeze control.

I want the Rosebud →

Adult stocking stuffers for gay men under $30

Small gear, BIG reaction. Everything here comes in under $30, which means you've got ZERO excuse for showing up empty-handed.

Gifts by budget

Every pick in this guide, sorted by what you're willing to spend on him.

Budget Gifts
Under $50 X-Wrap Cock Ring and Ball Stretcher, Black Ops Perforated Bondage Hood, Max Comfort Silicone Ball Gag, Raw Pup Penis Sleeve Girth Enhancer, FFister Cushioned Fisting Sleeve, Powershift 300 Vibrating Prostate Massager, Kum Keeper Hollow Tunnel Butt Plug, Tactical Velcro Wrist Restraints, Rosebud Pump Anal Pumping Cylinder
Under $100 Spring Loaded Lock'D Locking Metal Butt Plug, Tactical Velcro Collar and Chain Leash, Blackout Bulldog Chest Harness, Rev Cock Throbber Flexible Vibrating Ring, Banshee Pump 3.0 Digital Penis Pump, FF Trainer Fisting Practice Kit, Robo Rimmer Rolling Vibrating Plug, Porta Plow Portable Sling Straps, Robo Plunger Rotating Bead Depth Dong, CUMfort Cage Flexible Silicone Chastity Cage
Under $250 P-Spot Milker Remote Control Prostate Massager, Doggie Style David Petite Masturbator, Tendril Thruster Mini Fuck Machine, Bed Bondage Under-Bed Restraint System, Doorway Glory Hole Kit, Cut Thruster Hands-Free Thrusting Dildo, 2 Way Grunt Double-Ended Stroker Dildo, Silicone Sensory Hood, Velvet Guard Waterproof Play Sheet
$250 and up Autoblow AI Ultra Blowjob Machine, Dennis' Realistic 3D Ass and Poseable Dildo, Hammock Hangar Mesh Sex Sling, Grunt Fuck Machine with Body-Weight Anchor Mat, Obedience Extreme Sex Bench, Gunner System 3-in-1 Fucking Machine, Autoblow VacuGlide 2 Milking Machine

Why the useful gift wins (the research)

Researchers measured the most common gift-buying mistake, and you're probably making it. A 2016 paper from Carnegie Mellon and Indiana University found that people buying gifts focus on the moment the box gets opened. The guy receiving the gift cares about how much use he gets out of the gift over time (Galak, Givi & Williams, 2016). For your cart, that means the douche he uses every weekend beats the novelty toy he laughs at once.

Stanford and Harvard researchers found recipients appreciate gifts they asked for more than surprises. Recipients also rate requested gifts as MORE thoughtful (Gino & Flynn, 2011). Cash beat even the requested gifts in that study, a strong case for the gift card below.

Spending more doesn't buy more gratitude either. A Stanford study by Flynn & Adams (2009) found givers expect a pricier gift to land better. Recipients don't feel the difference.

One of the researchers, Indiana's Elanor Williams, suggested giving the useful thing with a little fun on top. We'd have told you the same. At the Fort, the useful thing is a Depth Charge One-Touch Anal Douche (4.9 stars from 26 reviews) with a Kum Keeper riding along. Or drop a pump bottle of Passion Natural in the same box as the Rev Cock Throbber.

Prep gear he'll use every week:

Can't call his size? Send the Fort Troff E-Gift Card

Fort Troff E-Gift Card for gay men, gift guide 2026

You don't know if he's a size queen or a size zero. You don't know if he takes fists or taps out at 2 fingers. The Fort Troff E-Gift Card skips all of that.

Load the card with $25 to $150, drop the card in his inbox, and let him arm HIMSELF with whatever gets him gagging or STRETCHED. Per the Stanford research above, the gift he picks for himself is the gift he'll like most. Rated 5.0 stars.

Load up a gift card for him →

How to give a sex toy as a gift without making things weird

  • Drop a hint first. Send him this guide and ask for a screenshot of his pick. Requested gifts land better, and you skip guessing his size.
  • Stack useful with fun. Put lube, a douche or a Travel Toy Cleaner Grenade in the box with the main gift. He'll use the useful piece every week.
  • Match the gift to the guy. Boyfriends get the couples gear or a big-ticket piece. Buddies and the group chat white elephant get stocking stuffers or the gift card.
  • Check his setup. A fuck machine or sling needs floor space. A bed bondage system needs a mattress. The Porta Plow needs nothing but a bed.
  • Put yourself on the list. You were good this year. Or you were bad. Either way, add something for yourself to the cart.

Gift guide FAQ

What's the best sex toy gift for a gay man? Match the gift to how he plays. Bottoms love a hands-free thrusting dildo like the Cut Thruster or a prostate massager like the Powershift 300. Tops love the Banshee Pump 3.0 or a vibrating cock ring like the Rev Cock Throbber. Couples get the most out of Porta Plow sling straps. If you don't know his size or his kinks, the Fort Troff E-Gift Card lets him choose.

When is Black Friday 2026? Black Friday 2026 is Friday, November 27, 2026, the day after Thanksgiving.

When is Cyber Monday 2026? Cyber Monday 2026 is Monday, November 30, 2026.

What do you get a gay man who has everything? Go big and build out his playroom. The Gunner System 3-in-1 Fucking Machine, the Hammock Hangar Mesh Sex Sling, the Obedience Extreme Sex Bench and the Autoblow VacuGlide 2 are gifts most guys don't already own.

What are good sex toys for gay couples? Porta Plow Portable Sling Straps, the Bed Bondage Under-Bed Restraint System, the Doorway Glory Hole Kit and remote-controlled toys like the P-Spot Milker or Robo Plunger give both guys something to do. A Velvet Guard Waterproof Play Sheet protects the bed.

What are good adult stocking stuffers for gay men? Magno Nip Tuggers magnetic nipple clamps, the X-Wrap cock ring and ball stretcher, the Fort Troff Dog Tag, the Fort Troff Camo Trucker Hat, Passion Natural lube and the Travel Toy Cleaner Grenade all come in under $30.

Is a sex toy a weird gift? Not between partners or close friends who talk about sex. Recipients appreciate gifts they asked for. Send him a gift guide and let him point at what he wants. A gift card works when you'd rather not guess.

Does Fort Troff ship in discreet packaging? Yes, every Fort Troff order ships that way.

What if I don't know his size? Send the Fort Troff E-Gift Card, from $25 to $150. He picks the size, the kink and the gear himself.

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